What‘s the difference between separation anxiety and boredom in dogs?

The short answer!

Separation anxiety triggers distress the moment you leave, boredom develops gradually after being alone for hours.

The key difference lies in timing, intensity, and what drives the behaviour.

Separation anxiety

  • Distress starts immediately or within minutes of your departure
  • Destructive behaviour focuses on exit points: scratching doors, chewing door frames, digging at windows
  • Toileting happens near doors or in unusual spots, not because they couldn't hold it
  • Vocalisation is continuous, frantic: howling, barking, whining that doesn't stop
  • Physical signs before you leave: panting, drooling, pacing, refusing food
  • Your dog can't settle down - stress hormones (cortisol) remain elevated throughout your absence (1)

Boredom

  • Develops after the dog has been alone for extended periods (2+ hours)
  • Destructive targeting is opportunistic: remote controls, shoes, cushions - items that are interesting or smell like you
  • Vocalisation is intermittent: occasional barking at sounds outside
  • The dog likely sleeps for periods, then wakes and finds something to do
  • No panic signs before departure; the dog may settle initially then seek stimulation

Why the difference is important

A bored dog given a long-lasting chew, puzzle toy, or adequate exercise beforehand will often settle happily. A dog with separation anxiety won't engage with treats or toys. Some dogs show both: underlying anxiety with boredom-driven destruction layered on top during longer absences.

Video footage from the first 30 minutes after you leave is incredibly revealing. True separation anxiety shows immediate distress; boredom shows gradual restlessness.

References

  1. Palestrini C, Previde EP, Spiezio C, Verga M. Heart rate and behavioural responses of dogs in the Ainsworth's Strange Situation: a pilot study. Appl Anim Behav Sci. 2005;94(1-2):75-88. Available from: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0168159105000535

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owners also ask

What are the signs of separation anxiety in dogs at night?

Persistent vocalisation (barking/whining), pacing, restlessness, destructive behaviour, toileting indoors or shadowing you around the house in the evening are all signs.

Can calming supplements help with my dog's separation anxiety?

Yes, calming supplements might help to lower your dog's emotional responses to certain stress triggers, giving room or 'space' for new routines and training to be more effective.

How can I help a dog with separation anxiety at night?

It requires a structured approach that addresses both the emotional response and the practical sleep routine, but progress can take time.